Brown in February, detailed how he kept photos of women’s breasts so he could pretend to his teammates that women had been sexting him. Underwood, who announced his engagement to boyfriend Jordan C. The couple announced their engagement in February. 'And then all of a sudden if you take it one step too far, you look a little too long, it turns into, you know, being called, you know, the f-word and it escalates really quickly to where you’re getting called out and you have to, like, defend yourself.” Colton Underwood, left, poses with fiance Jordan C. 'It was so confusing when I was closeted because at certain points people can be making jokes about, you know, somebody’s naked appearance, and, like, be leaning into it and having fun and making it, like, loose and gay,' he continued. “The locker room, in my eyes, was one of the most homophobic and homoerotic places that I’ve ever been,' Underwood said during an interview on the NPR podcast “The Limits.”